Dating : Getting over nerves
I’ve been dating this guy for about a month now. He’s smarter than me, with more ambition and also more in shape. I’m not totally out of shape or stupid, this man is just works out for 3+ hours a day and has several degrees. I’m just more average in those areas. He’s very sweet and not judgmental at all and we both seem to really like spending time together. I just can’t seem to get over my nerves with him and it occasionally makes lulls in the conversation and makes me self conscious about doing anything physical with him. I logically know he’s just a guy and I have boobs and he’s openly attracted to me and I just need to get over myself. But I’m just still so nervous around him. Just on here looking for any tips, tricks, or advice to get past this.
Hoenstly, I don’t know what it’s like when someone is attracted to you. But can’t you just tell yourself that he is attracted to you? Sorry for the dumb way of saying this but you know, what more do you want? I mean if you know he is into you, what are you having difficulties with? I’m intentionally asking so stupidly.
Do you think he has nothing better to do than wasting his time with you? Especially if he is so hot? Wouldn’t he be out with a different girl? But he’s with you. Isn’t that enough to make it obvious? Sorry, like I said I have never experienced this so maybe I’m oversimplifying stuff. But it seems to be that simple to me?
Be yourself