Dating : Getting too excited
I have this bad habit. I get so excited when I finally meet a guy that I’m super attracted to- because this is uncommon for me. Then I idealize them and after like 2 dates become obsessed about how great they are and want to be exclusive. Of course I don’t tell them this right away and try to play it cool. But in my mind I get so sad and stressed out knowing that they are dating and having sex with other women.
How can I chill about this mentally and be patient when I’m so excited about someone?? I’m a one-guy kind of girl, and I get very invested and only have eyes for one person when I become interested in them, but then I usually end up giving too much in the beginning of the relationship. Looking for advice on how to calm down and mentally not freak out every time this happens lol.