Dating : GF thinks I’m unfaithful
I met her on tinder 6 months ago, we’ve been dating since. Yesterday her friend showed her that my tinder was still active. I deleted it off my phone but I guess the profile still shows up. I was dealt a bad card by my ex-wife and I’m not the type of person to do that. I told her I’m not doing anything but now she’s doubting me. Can this relationship be fix? I feel like if you don’t trust me then what’s the point? I’m also angry at her friend, but me personally I feel calm, normal, because I know I’m not doing anything.
A quick google search can show her that even if you delete the app, your profile will still show up. You have to actually delete your account for it to not appear. Try explaining that to her and see if she understands. Unless you actually went on and put up new pictures or updated your bio, I can’t see how she’d be mad.
Could potentially be a red flag… I dated a girl who was single from divorce due to cheating, and it seemed like I could never do anything without her and avoid interrogation. Her friends were also always instigating some sort of drama. The last straw was me being at a bar with friends one night and her friend literally showing up to spy on me, and she defended her friend. I could not handle being in a relationship with so little trust I guess.
If you can show here your activity on tinder do so asap, and be honest, you forgot about the account… Also check and see if hers is active because she may be double dipping
I explained all that and yesterday I went in and deleted the profile. Also I went ahead and deleted all my fb post that was mostly political and now she’s freaking out….
> Yesterday her friend showed her that my tinder was still active.
If your profile hasnt been active for 6 months it shouldnt appear to women because it would be so buried in the deck they would never get to it.
A girl that thinks you have options is a good thing…. don’t do anything.
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It’s a red flag that your GF is unwilling to give you the benefit of the doubt. And it’s a red flag that she doesn’t trust you based solely on you not knowing to delete your Tinder account completely. That’s 2 red flags.