Dating : Ghosted and confused
I stated seeing a guy and he was so into me at first, saying things like I was his ideal and he was infatuated with me. Third date he told me he doesn’t wear condoms and as I’m not on the pill I didn’t sleep with him but we carried on seeing each other and I said I would go back on the pill. He said things like he wasn’t interested in anyone else. Date 5 I got very drunk which isn’t like me but I apologised to him and he didn’t seem bothered. Date 6 he came over to my place and a message on his phone popped up from a girl on hinge. I knew he didn’t have the app previously so I got upset and probably didn’t handle the situation well. He said I was paranoid as we weren’t even exclusive yet. I get that but I didn’t understand why he would lie and obviously wanted to date other girls. He then started saying unkind things such as your hair doesn’t look nice down. After a few more meet ups, he’s now ghosted me. I’m gutted as I really thought we had clicked and he was keen on me. Now I feel like it’s all my fault and I’ve lost a great guy.
