Dating : Girl I’m dating is vegetarian, should I eat what she eats?
So I eat anything and everything, I’m not a fussy eater in the slightest and always happy to try new things. I’m not vegetarian.
A girl I’m interested in is vegetarian. We’ve been on a couple of dates so far, one of them being that I cooked a vegetarian lunch for us both. She noted that she hates the feeling that she has to specially accommodated for due to her being vegetarian; to which I said that it doesn’t bother me, its no hassle, Ill literally eat anything.
Is it strange for me do to this? Does it make me appear to be a doormat/pushover?
For example, what if I were to order the same(or another vegetarian dish) as her at restaurant?
NO. It’s an absolutely private choice, and if she clever girl and respect you, she accepts any your choice.
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Absolutely not.
As a vegetarian, no I find it weird if someone I’m dating specifically orders vegetarian food when with me. I want them to eat whatever they’d like, not something just to make me happy.
If she is forcing you to also become vegetarian I dont think that’s the foundation of a healthy relationship.
> She noted that she hates the feeling that she has to specially accommodated for due to her being vegetarian; to which I said that it doesn’t bother me, its no hassle, Ill literally eat anything.
Ok, so don’t accommodate her. Don’t give her the impression of « whatever i don’t care i’ll eat whatever because i don’t have any preferences to assert » because that will tell the primal part of her brain that you’re a big pussy.