Dating : Girl wants to take things slow?
This girl and I (both 25) had our 2nd date last night. We met off bumble and we have had a good time so far. At the end of the date she asked what I was looking for? I said I wanted to date. She said I like you and think your sweet but I wanna take things slow….I said I understand. She said I’ll talk to you later. We hugged and that was it.
Should I text her saying I had a great time last night? Or is she saying give me space and I’ll get back to you? Really unsure about how to proceed or what she meant by that
She meant what she said. She wants to take things slow and take her time getting to know you. I don’t think there’s any harm in a text just saying you had a great time.
From my perspective, taking things slow means keeping dating more platonic than romantic for a while as I really get to know someone before having sex with them. I do think having sex too soon can throw things off in a bad way when you’re trying to figure out if someone is a good potential long term partner.
Just try something like « Hey had a great time it was nice to meet you, I’d like to go out again and I respect that you want to move slow, so let me know if you feel like hanging out again » or something like that