Dating : Girls that use tinder, do you feel sexually attracted to the guys on there just from their picture?
Or do you need to meet them first? Do you know if you want to have sex just from their picture?
I’m having a few difficulties with tinder because I don’t find anyone on there attractive. [22 F] I don’t get excited just seeing a guy on tinder, it’s just a face to me, then again I’ve been struggling with not feeling attracted to anyone for a while which is worrying me.
[TLDR do you feel sexually attracted to guys just from their picture?]
I don’t think anyone feels sexually attracted from a picture. But you can tell if someone is objectively attractive or not and that’s the best start you can hope for. Then you go on a date and see how you feel.
I fucking hate tinder, I would like to know at least a little about someone before messaging them.
It’s all about looks., Ted Bundy was apparently good looking too…
i’m in the same boat as you. i can say if someone is objectively attractive or not, but any actual attraction can only be felt through meeting and talking.
Eh more like “wow he is so hot” and that I know he is objectively gorgeous and I can’t wait to meet him.
That’s it. I won’t be sexually attracted or feel attraction
Don’t take it to an extreme. We go through different ebbs and flow of hormones, or we are emotionally damaged and so our brain can protect us. If you were attracted to men, more than likely you will be in the future. I have gone through times that I feel the same, but it passes and someone peaks your interest and your back on. Don’t stress.
Nope.
Doesn’t work like that for me. Otherwise all the random and unsolicited dick pics I’ve gotten in my life would have made me feel something else other than immediate disgust and enrage.
I can find them attractive, but I won’t want anything more than that until I message them a few times and get a feel for what they’re like.
Yes, sometimes. It’s a small minority and it’s not just based on him being hot but also something more intangible. But I think I’m more visual than most women when it comes to sex. I mean, most women don’t feel much sexual arousal from porn but I can.
I used to use Tinder before I knew it was viewed as just for hook ups and stopped using it.
So this goes for any online dating website or app, sure, I can find a guy attractive *looking* from a picture. However, I would have to meet them to see if there’s any chemistry.
Not at all.
For me, I think it’s the very act of using [insert dating app here] that makes someone unattractive – it just feels inherently wrong. And that is extremely hypocritical of me to say, as I have used those apps as well. But I think most attraction is formed based on an actual, real-life, physical interaction. Especially if you find yourself usually attracted to those who don’t fit what would be considered a « traditionally » attractive look. I also feel a sense of desperation when I see someone actively looking for a relationship. I suppose to sum up this rationale, this mainly is a result of dating apps feeling *forced* – I need things to feel natural in order to form a proper attraction towards someone.
That’s not to say that dating apps don’t work as I know plenty of people form amazing relationships stemming from dating apps. It may take a few dates to form that attraction, as it is obviously not all based on looks. But I think it may also take a certain kind of person to be able to use them.