Dating : Guy hinted at asking me out but I feel like I shrugged it off. Did I blow my chances?
I’ve been texting this guy from tinder for 2 days now, and he told me yesterday that maybe we should get dinner and drinks sometime. The next morning, I told him that it might be fun then asked about his last relationship and then the conversation transitioned over into that and he hasn’t mentioned the dinner and drinks thing since, but we haven’t really been texting a whole lot either.
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Did I blow my chances with this guy? Ever since we started chatting he has always taken at least an hour or 3 to respond but after the transition, he’s taken up to 3 hours at a time. I really thought he was into me, so I’m confused. When he got my number, he added my snapchat immediately as well too but didn’t send me anything. Did I not seem interested? What can I do to get him more interested?
Why dont you ask him to grab a cup of coffee and talk in person? He was/is clearly interested in meeting you. And you are, too. So whats the deal?
I’m thinking that you were being casual and this could work in your favor
I suppose, just be honest upfront…. I know I kinda hate being lied to.
Why would you talk about exes so quickly? That’s super weird.
Wtf? I keep seeing tinder threads on here. Do women really care about the guys they have convos with on tinder before even meeting? Lol, when I used it I had a million convos going and then just deleted the app when I met someone great. Crazy to think I probably hurt them by « ghosting » them without even thinking about it.
>Did I blow my chances with this guy?
Like wtf? It’s just some guy you haven’t met who you’ve sent level 2 small talk to. Why would you ask something like this?