Dating : Guy wants to hang out day after date and day after that
I have no issue with this, just wondering if it’s weird. I met a guy out and gave him my number, and a few days later we went for a walk for like and hour and talked and it went great and I feel like we click pretty well. A couple days later he asked me to hang out Friday night, we ended up hanging out from 6pm – 2:00 am, we had a great time and talked a lottt and kissed and everything. He now wants to hang out tonight and also mentioned doing something tomorrow. I like that he’s so interested and so am I, but is this something I should be wary of? I haven’t totally sussed him out so far. Feels really good that he wants to be around me a lot though
It’s an intensity I’m personally not comfortable with so I’d probably just do one of those days and do something next week, but that’s based purely on my character. I just can’t be up under someone day in day out from the jump and need space. If that happens down the line, then it’ll be organic. But nothing necessarily wrong with it if both parties are free and wanna hang out
On a dating podcast I heard a little piece of advice regarding this: some men assume women adhere to the third date rule, so they plan dates 1-3 in quick succession to accomplish their ‘goal’ sooner. Had this happen to me, guy wanted to plan date two and three back to back. I suggested we reschedule the morning date three was supposed to take place, guy said no worries and then I never heard from him again. I’m sure you’re fun to hangout with but I think it’s a-typical for someone you’ve *just* started to date to suggest spending three consecutive days together – like what’s the rush and don’t they have a life?
Obviously something feels off about his suggestion because you’re posting on here. Do whatever feels right but If you’re wary, cancel and then reschedule for a later date! If you don’t hear from him again or he attempts to pressure you into making time sooner than suggested, you have your answer.
Yes, it’s weird. He doesn’t have anything else important going on in his life except you.
Or he could be love bombing, which is a kind of manipulation done by narcissistic people.
It sounds like he wants to be together with you.
So they enjoyed themselves. Keep it public if you’re unsure, until you feel comfortable.
Ok so I always end up in situations where if I go on a first date with someone and it ends up being long (6-8hrs) I’ve noticed me and the person are into one another. So we end up seeing each other multiple days in a row.
This is how my dating life has been. Whenever I’ve really clicked with someone they want to see me as soon as possible.
For example: I went on a first date 2.5weeks ago. We FaceTimed for 6hrs before setting up a date the next day. Went to dinner and drinks – 6hrs together. We grab dinner and drinks next night – 5hrs together etc etc. We now have been seeing one another for 2.5weeks and have seen each other each Saturday/Sunday, as well as, multiple times during the week.
In my experience, when this happens I end up actually dating the person. 🙂 I wouldn’t be worried too much. As long as you want to see him equally as much.
I don’t know how that’d be a red flag. As long as he’s not trying to pressure you into doing something you don’t wanna do. If anything, it is nice he is taking time out of his schedule to be with you.
As long as you’re comfortable with it, it’s fine.
It’s more of a compatibility issue IMO. Personally it wouldn’t work for me as typically I do other things throughout the week and can’t just drop everything to see someone I’ve just met
Sounds amazing, as long as you feel the same way go for it !
I had this experience with what was supposed to be a meeting about my nutrition with a PT.
Ended up asking her out for dinner the next day and have been inseparable for the past 6-7 weeks (seeing her at least 4-5 times a week).
If it feels right go for it !