Dating : Have you ever had a crush on someone but your feelings with him/her randomly disappears and appears again with no reason?
[16yr M] There is a high school girl which for the past days I have overthought about her to the point I actually fantasize a deep and dreamy relationship between us and it feels such a desirable thing, but when it comes to real life, when we actually see ourselves, it’s just OK, my crush for her suddenly disappears and we just talk casually like normal friends, with no chemistry at all, where isn’t any deal, but at the time I’m not with her she pops in my head and the whole thing repeats again. I’m guessing this may be reciprocal, but anyway is that normal?
Yeah.
You might have made up another version of her, and fell in love with it. You’re in love with a person that doesn’t exist. When you see her IRL, she isn’t the same as the person you made yourself believe she is. So you won’t be attracted to her.