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Dating : He compared me to an ex and called her super hot. Red flag?

Dating : He compared me to an ex and called her super hot. Red flag?


So there is this guy(21m) I(21f) have kissed once. He is a long time friend. We have had few back and forth discussions on the same and once it even ended in a big fight. I had clearly said I won’t kiss or makeout again without some clarity but he said he doesn’t like labels but insisted he liked me and wanted to see me. And he did agree to go on casual dates with me if I was not comfortable with idea of FWB.

Now we had been having a candid conversation yesterday where he clearly said he wanted to kiss me again( we haven’t talked about it since we fought). So we both were being playful and teasing each other on text. He said something about me kissing him and how that meant he was important to me. I reverted with « I was just trying you out  » and all. Then he replied « even I was trying the bike I gotta ride » . I said I won’t let him ride me and he reverted that « who needs a scooty when they can get superbikes ». I took this as a joke and said « ouch I am hurt( in a fun way). I am aware you don’t want scooty, you are looking for superbikes ». And then he said « I just wanted the scooty for a few rides but it needs a solid buyer » and cause this sounded too personal it rubbed me the wrong way.

Also he immediately started telling me about some girl he had dated in the past who was in his own words »limited edition  » and « super hot ».

Now I feel that his roast wasn’t limited to fun but turned into something personal and I am confused if I should even go out with this guy ever again. Honestly I was mostly not going to get into anything cause labels matter to me but him saying that I was less hot then his ex( I think he kinda implied that) makes it even worse. Am I thinking in the right direction?

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