Dating : how can you tell if a guy is texting you because they genuinely want to be your friend or if they just want to fuck?
i can’t tell if he texts me because he genuinely enjoys our friendship or if he just wants to hookup. we’ve never met in person. what are the red flags?
Remember that there are generally 2 kinds of guys. 1) Guys that want to fuck. 2) And guys that want your friendship and fuck.
Yes
If he wants to trade pics of sexy parts, there’s your red flag
But seriously, if you’ve never met face to face and have just been messaging, then it’s unlikely he just has « friends » in mind. Time to go on this thing people used to do in the before times called a « date »
If he’s only talking to you to hook up then chances are high he’s constantly steering the conversation to sex / nudes.
I would say give him a shot, and go with your instinct.
He genuinely enjoys being friends with a girl he wants to have sex with.
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This is the truth for all men, if you don’t believe me you’re delusional and expect the friendship to end after he says « i like you » and rages at you when you friendzone him.
If they start talking dirty in texting or being touchy during meetups. They are testing your limits.
I will give them an angry stare if they are not my cup of tea lol. If it is, let’s move on haha.
Has he asked for noodz or been handsy?
Talking about sex too soon or before meeting up