Dating : How do i get over her?

Dating : How do i get over her?

I’ll keep this simple and sweet, me and my ex broke up on mutual grounds 4 years ago. During that time we talk, drink coffee, discuss each others problems.

Over the past couple of months we have been growing apart more and more. She constantly keeps telling me we will date again, but after getting out of jail, along with finding out I have a few mental problems, I’ve been doubting her everyday, along with the periods of days of not talking or seeing each other.

I decided to tell her I dont want to be friends anymore, mainly cause when I think about her I get depressed; however, when I messaged her if we could meet to talk she just avoided the problem and was demanding I tell her over message. I dont like discussing meaningful moments in my life over text message so I prefer in person.

*Back to the subject.

Once everything is over, what are some good ways and activities I could try out to get her off my mind and, who knows, maybe find someone worthy of my time?