Dating : How do I get the girl back?
I started talking to this girl from tinder two weeks ago and things were going amazing, we had 2 dates that she planned and we kissed a bit on the second and it honestly felt like a dream. Shes an Au pair from Germany and I really like her and I don’t want to mess things up with her. English isn’t her first language so there’s a bit of a language barrier text wise.
2 days ago something flipped, she slowly got more distant and when I tried to text her and make plans when she expressed how she felt that with her insanely busy schedule she barely had time for me. That she was primarily looking for a friend and that she doesn’t want to be a disappointment. That she doesn’t feel right because of the last guy she was talking to. She isn’t sure about having a boyfriend here in the states when she has to go back to Germany in April.
I didn’t want to pressure her and I asked if we could take a step back and continue as regular and she happily agreed. Since then I haven’t been getting the same energy as before, doesn’t call me anymore and texting has been especially boring. I don’t want things to fizzle out so I’m wondering what should i do here?
She found someone else. Move on.
She let you down easy. If she liked you she’d make it happen
>she expressed how she felt that with her insanely busy schedule she barely had time for me. That she was primarily looking for a friend and that she doesn’t want to be a disappointment. That she doesn’t feel right because of the last guy she was talking to.
Sounds like she’s not that into you, and possibly found another dude. You were just one chump among 1000 on Tinder. You never stood a chance.
Forget about her. She’s lame.