Dating : How do I make a girl lose interest
I am far from a catch, so my dating life is pretty laid back. If there is a girl I’m interested in, I will work really hard to get her attention and/or a date. Only three times in my life has a girl made the first move and shown interest in me. Whether or not I like the person, I always show appreciation for their effort by going out on a date with them. First two times, there was no chemistry and both times the connection just fizzled out but the third time has been different and difficult.
This girl who I’ve known for a while has messaged the crud out of me for over a year. At first we went out for 2 dates and I felt absolutely no chemistry; but, to my relief, she entered into a relationship with another guy she was dating. Now that she’s single again she’s been blowing up my social media and phone. I decided to give it another shot and so after 3 cancellations (from her), we had breakfast. Again I feel no chemistry; but the feeling isn’t mutual. I’ve done everything but ghost her, replied to her messages late (if at all), complained about a lot of little things (not about her), canceled on her once; but she just isn’t stop her campaign. Any suggestions on how to get her uninterested in me? I don’t want to be a douche and just stop everything and ignore her and I am not sure if another date will just had fuel to her fire or if it will make her feel same way.
Ps. It sounds douchey but I’m not physically attracted to her either, so I’m not interested in a romp or a just physical relationship either.
Tell her you love her and call her 10 times a day
Just be upfront and tell her you don’t have romantic feelings.
Other than being straight up and honest – – stand her up.
Just tell her you aren’t feeling the connection youre looking for, was nice meeting you – good luck! Or some variation of that. Stop going on dates and making her think you are interested.