Dating : How do I start talking to this girl?
Normally it’s easy for me to up out of nowhere text a girl and start talking/flirting with her. I wouldn’t care if they blow me off or if they respond.
But with this one, it’s different. She’s a quality girl and we’ve had a few conversations in class and I like her, but I hate to mess it up or do something that’ll scare her off since she’s a nice girl.
Background; she’s an indie girl that is passionate about politics, art, and nature (sounds like a very stereotypical hippie girl). She’s more introverted than her friends so she doesn’t hang out with anyone as much.
Normally I would just text a girl and hope for the best and not care for the outcome. Or make an excuse to text her, but I can’t even think of any. What’s even worse is that since it’s summertime so I can’t see her in person and strike a conversation.
First time on this subreddit so I don’t exactly know what to expect or even what to write on here, or even if this should be a valid ask-for-advice post. Any tips on texting her first? Out of the blue? Any advice helps, go ahead and judge too.
Tell her that you are interested in her personal opinion about some political issue, be specific something that keeps her talking a lot, and tell her that please if she could explain to you in detail. Then pay attention to what she says and do more listening than talking. Make shorts comments encouraging to go on with the subject.
However, if refuses to answer or cut short. That means she isn’t interested in talking to you even about things that she is interested in.