Dating : How to build trust again?
I don’t want to get into it, but I want to hear other people’s answers. How did you rebuild trust in a relationship after the trust has been broken or how do you build trust?
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I don’t want to get into it, but I want to hear other people’s answers. How did you rebuild trust in a relationship after the trust has been broken or how do you build trust?
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You don’t, you need to ask yourself why the trust was broken in the first place. There’s normally a deeper reason, either you two don’t work together or one of you is a dick. Once the trust is broken you need to move on, it might build over time but it’ll never go back to what it was.
I tried doing that, so according to my experience I found it was near impossible. Even if I would begin to trust them, there would always be that voice inside reminding me of what broke the trust prior.
In fact I realised it was easier for me to trust someone who I didn’t know, starting fresh, than someone who broke my trust.
I think the paradigm of the broken glass is quite apt.
If a specific person breaks your trust then you will never get that back. You can’t un-ring that bell.
Honestly I thought I was going to have trust issues after my last relationship. When there’s a new person there’s not really a need to project someone else’s shittyness on them.
You will never be able to trust the person who had the audacity to break it in the first place. That’s not how trust works.
Building trust is something that just kinda happens but if you’re trying to rebuild it in my personal experience once it’s gone it’s gone for good.
forgiving and letting the person to prove he/she changed in time. Time will heal. But it takes time to heal and prove things change