Dating : How to inform a man that I’ve got hirsutism?
When in a relationship should a woman with hirsutism tell the man she’s dating that she has this condition?
Should she let him find out on his own? (Which would happen eventually because there’s no way to keep this condition a secret forever)
Should she tell him in the early dating stages and risk scaring him off?
Or should she tell him when trust and an emotional connection have been established?
59M here. I would chose to do the latter. As an aside if someone is supposedly into gets scared off by that condition you are better off without him.
I wish you the best of luck!
I’d say wait. It’s not something untreatable, and isn’t a serious problem, so no need to tell until you’re comfortable.
>Or should she tell him when trust and an emotional connection have been established?
Why go thru all of that effort and investment only to risk getting rejected.
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Just either mention it causally early on or let him find out for himself. Both are better than this .. I’d go with the former … Big smile and a casual « btw, I have this thing, just so you know 🙂 »