Dating : How to know if it’s gut or fear?

Dating : How to know if it’s gut or fear?

When I start to date someone I really like, I get very anxious. I start to overthink and I always believe that the attraction is not mutual, that Im not good enough, that he is out of my league.
I put the guy Im dating on a pedestal.

Deep down I’m affraid of being rejected.

When feeling all of this. I’m overwhelmed and can’t listen to my gut.

Sometimes i think my gut tells me something, but most of the time it’s just fears.

I often end up sabotaging new dating relationship.

Do you have any advice on how I can make the difference between fear and being affraid of rejection with real gut feelings.

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  1. Sure here are some steps:

    1) Don’t idealize or romanticize him. You said you put the man on a pedestal, which is already saying that you’re idealizing the idea of him and giving him more credit than he’s worth.

    He’s just a human like the rest of us. So remember that.

    2) Instead, put yourself on a pedestal. Not in a narcissistic way, but meaning love yourself and have high expectations for yourself. Just know that you are awesome and any man would be lucky to date you.


    Just change your perspective and love yourself. Remember there are like 4 billion men in the world. Tons of fish in the sea. Don’t create an idea of him.

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