Dating : How to tell a guy I don’t want to talk so much
I (24, F) matched with a guy on Bumble. He seemed interesting but he likes to talk to me a lot. He’ll double message at times and I feel badgered with questions at times. I don’t like talking to people I match with on Bumble before we meet up. I’ve had experiences in the past where I liked how someone was online too much and absolutely couldn’t stand them in person so I try to limit online conversation until we meet. We finally set a day to meet and I told him « I have to go now, please let me know on *the day of the date* if you’re still up for it ». We said bye and the very next day he was back to wanting long conversations. How do i tell him I don’t like to talk too much on dating apps? Does anyone else feel this way about talking too much with matches?