Dating : I [24F] am hosting a guy friend [27M]. I thought I was being nice and he thought he was going to get laid. Please help.
I [24F] am hosting a guy friend [27M]. I thought I was being nice and he thought he was going to get laid. Please help.
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He’s not your friend if all he wants from you is to get laid. He’s trying manipulate you with the articles to give into his demands. He’s an asshole. If someone’s an asshole in your place you have the right to be an asshole back and kick them out.
You’re not being a bad host, he’s being a bad human. Kick him out and let him figure out the rest of the situation himself. Don’t let yourself be used girl, you’re worth much more than that piece of scum.
He sounds terrible, sorry.
Kick him out!! I know why you are trying to be nice but STOP. Women put themselves in precarious situations everyday trying to be polite. No person is worth it!
Call the police, kick him out. I don’t understand why you haven’t done this already. You are in fear of being hurt really bad and you care about « being nice »?
You’re doing so much for a terrible dude. Just be straight forward and if u must, kick him out. Like ur just wasting money on this dude who is clingy and like u said, wants to get laid.
Ur not a bad host. U just got dealt with a really awful person.
Never host a « guy friend ». Major mixed signals. A « guy friend » rarely thinks he’s just a « guy friend. » If he’s a guy friend, he usually is really an orbiter pursuing a pathetic, passive-aggressive mating strategy.
You’ve been more than nice to this guy. What a creep sending you those articles!!
He has no right to judge your dating life. You’re being too nice to this guy… I would’ve just kicked him out.
Hahahaha wtf.. just kick him out. He doesn’t care about friendship and your just enabling his terrible behavior. This is why guys push so hard bc a lot of girls give in
Him sending you articles of 30-35 year old women who are single because of their high standards is one of the funniest things.
Why haven’t you asked him to leave yet?
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You should ask this guy how he feels about the situation and if he likes you in a physical way.
He misjudged the situation, if you clear it up with him that you were only trying to be friendly in a platonic way he should accept that since he was at fault for assuming here. But he may have legitimately just misread it so I’d at least try and give the dude the benefit of the doubt first.
If he reacts negatively about it though then he’s being super shitty and you don’t deserve that at all. So just kick him out if he’s a pos about it
Ugh, he sounds horrible
You can kick him out – I certainly would. He sounds like a total creep! Geez. Guys like this give the rest of us a bad name. Have cops do it if you’re scared of him (he does sound unstable). The fact he even remotely thinks this behave is okay….. wow.
> this was a guy I’d previously rejected
So he romantically pursued you once and you rejected him and you are shocked her pursues you again when you let him stay at your place?
You cant be this naive.
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Just give him a quick Jack Handy with your head turned. Get rid of the waxy buildup thats causing the strife between you.