Dating : I alawys get friendzonned
–sorry for the bad writing — i am 19 male i have looking for a healthy relationship since 2 years ago i have benn talking to girls (strangers and schoolmates ) in the begening i don’t like to look like thaat guy disprate for love i begin like a human want to know other human then we start joking and lauging with each other and then i see if she could be a good fit for me -vice versa- but when i start talking about how we could be a good partners they just shut me off – oh dude we are just friends bla bla….-
Maybe i sould do a normal dating prosess ?
Don’t be friends with women.
if you don’t want to have girls as friends you need to stop talking to girls as friends. You can’t get mad that a girl thinks you and her are friends when you’re not making it known that the only reason why you’re talking to her is because you want to get to know her to eventually date her and have no interest in being friends with her. If you’re on dating apps or trying to meet women in real life let them know your intentions. because essentially the girl is probably thinking oh you could be a cool friend because girls seem to be more keen to wanting males as friends but guys don’t really seem to want women as friends. you’re literally wasting her and your time by not letting her know that you do not want her as a friend. you could be meeting so much more women and getting so much more experiences than the few that you have if you just straight up were like yeah don’t want girls as friends.