Dating : I feel sad, because more of the same gender is attracted to me which I‘m not.
Through the time with being on reddit I found out what kind of people I would attract and turns out (kinda knew) that I attract my own gender more then the opposit gender.
Don‘t get me wrong. I learned now that compliments can come too from the same gender and can be appreciated,
but
that doesn‘t make me feel better.
I want a relationship, sexual relationship, partnership with someone from the opposit gender, because I‘m just not attracted to the same gender.
Why should I feel ashamed about my sexuality?
The problem is I don‘t know how to attract the people I like.
Any advice is appreciated and I‘ll try to reply to everything as I need as much help as possible.
One way to do is put yourself out more, and talk to the gender you would like to attract more that’s to show that you show interest. Everyone started somewhere and people coming to them wasn’t always the first, make the move and see how it goes. You got this.
Just go gay bro. I’m trying to convince myself to make it happen for the same reasons that you just stated. This truly is a clown world