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Dating : I haven’t dated since my last ex and it’s been nearly a year and a half.

Dating : I haven’t dated since my last ex and it’s been nearly a year and a half.


I’m a guy in my 20’s. I haven’t dated anyone since my last ex about a year and a half ago. I’m still hurt a bit over it. I go out quite a bit to events, but when I’m at events, my mind thinks about her again and I hate it and don’t feel like being at the event anymore.

The only time where I don’t feel that way is when I’m with friends. I am also good at chatting to the ladies at events, but I also don’t have the guts to ask for their social media at times.

Also, a lot of the time, they are with their partners at these events or just don’t want to bother with the guys at the events.

Even if I do get their social media, they have a boyfriend on their social media profile and rhen I just can’t be bothered anymore.

Sometimes, I just think that I won’t be able to be with someone new and that’s the thing that annoys me the most. How am I supposed to know, if there’s something better out there, if I never get a chance at dating anyone new?

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  1. you are still young :-).. probably best to get over the hurt first and then try to meet someone.

    I’m in my 30’s, f, and haven’t dated since my last ex either.. been over 3.5 years.

  2. I’m probably in a similar situation to you. Haven’t dated anyone for over 5 years and I have been having no luck in finding anyone new… As if noone wants me anyway… Not too sure what to do…

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