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Dating : I(16M) am seeing someone(16F), she ‘pulled away’ and I over reacted.

Dating : I(16M) am seeing someone(16F), she ‘pulled away’ and I over reacted.


Basically, I’m seeing someone and they ‘pulled away’, I over reacted and messaged her saying if she’s not interested in me then she should let me know. She said she’s interested but she’s just bored of the same conversations and the awkwardness. She ended it ended on « let’s just be friends ». The next day I contacted her again saying « I’m sorry for ruining this relationship between us », she said that it wasn’t my fault for it being awkward or for ruining it, but this makes me think that she just wants nothing to do with me as she could just not be interested anymore. She has now gone on vacation for two weeks. This means I won’t get any replies, but it also means that with some time away from our ‘relationship’ then she could reconsider it.

We’ve only been on a few dates but we definitely ‘clicked’ on the first date. We have a lot in common and she was definitely interested in me at one point in the ‘relationship’.

I get the feeling that this could go two ways. She could come back from vacation and want to try things again, or she could just continue her life without me. In this situation, should I just apply the no contact rule and hope for the best, or is there anything else I should do?

I wanted to know if there’s still any chance of it working out between me and her? Also, what does she mean by let’s just be friends? Is she letting me down slowly because she pity’s me? Does she just need a break? I’m so confused. Thanks for your time and effort, I appreciate you’re help. Thanks.

TL; DR Basically, I’m seeing someone and they ‘pulled away’, I over reacted and messaged her saying if she’s not interested in me then she should let me know. She said she’s interested but she’s just bored of the same conversations and the awkwardness. She ended it ended on « let’s just be friends ».

Is there still any chance of it working out between me and her? Also, what does she mean by let’s just be friends? Is she letting me down slowly because she pity’s me? Does she just need a break? I’m so confused. Thanks.

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