Dating : I’m ready to explore my sexuality (20M bisexual), with both men and women. But I’m terrified of men
I am now in an open relationship with my girlfriend, and I want to learn how to flirt and seduce without dating apps, which I feel will get better on it’s own with women.
But because of past trauma I am terrified of men, and don’t know how to overcome my fear. Next week I have a date with a guy I’ve been chatting with for about 2,5 years. But I don’t think that’ll be enough to get over my fear of men…
Anybody have any similar experience?
Hew i am also bi a bit older than you, i haven’t experienced something similar with men but i some what have with women. Can I ask, what was your past trauma that caused this fear ? Obviously you don’t have to say if you don’t want. Have you talked to a therapist about this?