Dating : Im very confused
A week ago i was at a party with my friends (same group i hang out all the time with) and there are 2 girls in this group i will talk about. They are best friends… anyway we were drunk and stuff and i made out with one of this 2 girls that night. A week goes by and we were hanging out like nothing happened but… 2 days ago there was another party, same people… we were hanging out and the girl i made out with last time left the party so the other one stayed. next thing i know she (best friend of the girl i kissed) is all over me grabbing my dick and stuff like that…
The next day we have « after party » both girls come and again we hang out like nothing happened… i try to talk to the girl (the one who was touching me) bcs i like her more than the one i made out with… anyway i talk to her a little bit and it was really like nothing happened no one said anything about what happened and when i talked with her she didnt show any sign of intrest in me (im good at reading signs and i didnt see any maybe bcs i was drunk…)
So what do i do? I just want to be « friends with benefits » with the second girl. Do i text her? If yes what do i say?
Im very confused and i dont know what to do i hope i can find help here. Thanks
Honestly, don’t think too much into it, at least right now. Back in college a girl part of my friend group and I would just be friends during the week and then Saturday after the bar I would go to her room to make out, fool around etc. The next day we acted as if it didn’t happen, wouldn’t talk about it, etc. Just something sort of unspoken. Honestly, some girls just want to make out/ fool around when they party. A kiss is a handshake really so I wouldn’t look too deep into that. But obviously there could be something. The one thing you should ask considering they’re in your circle of friends is how far you want to take it. You don’t want lines to get crossed or any sort of misconception. If it’s a drunken fool around because that’s all they wanted to do, then just roll with it.