Dating : My current fiance is still married to her husband. What do I do now?
So let me explain this. I meet a woman and we dated for 3 months and I fell head over heals with her. She introduced me to friends and family, i do the same likewise. I tell her things I never told a woman and she does the same with me. I meet her son and she tells me that the dad is in the picture. I respect that because my father wasn’t. So any guy that wants to be a father and actually be there for his kid is a cool dude in my book. But then she drops a bomb on me. Baby daddy and herself got divorce but after being officially divorced they got back together for money reason per se. Anyway we get through that I propose to her even knowing she is still married because she is in the works of re-divorcing, however it’s been 4 months since the proposal. We still haven’t planned a single thing for our wedding because she is still married and anytime I mentioned the divorce proceedings I get called a bad guy or it’s to emotional for her right now. I don’t understand it. So Reddit what do I do?
A lot of red flags are springing up….
Leave her. Sounds like she may still have feelings for her ex or just realized that this is moving way too fast for her after dating only 3 months.
I’ve been down this road friend. I wound up paying for her divorce myself. She thanked me by cheating on me with him several times.
You are going down a very perilous road and it will do you wonders to deny those feelings you have for her before they destroy you.
Wow
Run, run, run.
How long was it until she dropped the child and marriage on you?
That should be out there within the first 2-3 days of chatting.
She has no end goal. Dump her.
Um, are you not going to take back your ring and run? dude do not marry this woman she sounds like a leech, of course, a leech will lie and say any excuse she can to not make her look bad.
> because she is still married and anytime I mentioned the divorce proceedings I get called a bad guy
Major red flag bro.
> it’s to emotional for her right now… We still haven’t planned a single thing for our wedding
I’d suggest calling off the proposal for now, tell her that she needs to sort her shit out first and let you know when she’s ready to move forward. She’s stalling on this, when in reality, if she was 100% interested in moving forward she’d be making as much effort as possible to that that shit sorted so he can move on with you.
> What do I do now?
RUN. You barely know this woman yet decide to get engaged and then she’s calling you a bad guy for asking her to move forward with her divorce? Dude…how can you not see the red flags? Are you so blinded by love that you cannot even see she’s using you??
RED ALERT. RED ALERT.