Dating : Insecurities affecting my relationships
I recently was left and feel my body image issues and insecurities ruined it. I don’t know that for a fact but I feel it might have. I’m seeing a therapist soon to help with anxiety but was wondering if anybody had any advice for how to avoid this in the future?
Walk.. bike ride, yoga. Stay active and work off those insecurities.
I don’t know if you’re male or female but I could definitely relate to you so let me tell you a bit about my experiences so that maybe I could help you in some way even if it’s in the slightest. I’m a 28F and I have had tons of dating experiences as well as two long term relationships one in which I was engaged. I’ve always been insecure about a specific area on my body. Due to this it takes me time to feel comfortable around someone sexually and completely let loose and not be in my head the whole time. It sucks yes because I can’t be my authentic self at times and fully enjoy the moment and obviously it shows. I could definitely tell you that it’s turned guys off that I was shy at first because I couldn’t give them fireworks omg out of this world sex after one sexual encounter. I could also tell you that those aren’t the men or women that you want in your life and you’re lucky to have them out of your life as much as it hurts. Dating is hard especially with body insecurities. I could also tell you that the right man or woman for you will acknowledge and accept your insecurities and do anything possible to help you and make you feel beautiful wanted and accepted. In the meantime work on yourself love yourself and all that you are. We’re all human beings and all have insecurities some of us worse than others but it’s going to be ok. Just because you have body image issues does not make you unworthy of dating remember that. Believe in yourself and have faith that the right person for you will run towards you and never away from you. I hope this made sense and helped you in some way. Good luck to you on your journey and know that you’re worthy and so much more than your body.
if a person is so lazy improving urself, he/she will really have this insecurities. people that really work on themselves
Emotionally, mentally, physically gain their confidence on themselves it’s not from outside, it’s INSIDE JOB.
no one wake up confident. It’s a lifestyle that built confidence
Therapy & exercise.