Dating : Is he cheating?
Background info:
I’ve been dating my boyfriend a month now. I really like him and he knows this and he tells me a lot that he likes me a lot. But he told me early on that he doesn’t say the word love to anyone. I found that weird considering I saw a post he said it to his ex. Every day I get good morning/night texts from him but lately not as much. Also his work schedule changed but he’s not been answering my texts for hours and hours at a time but he will send snaps. (Yes I peep his snap score sometimes) or like Instagram pics. I have his location and he has mine. He comes over (lives an hour away) when he can because he has a big job and he have lots of fun together. He told me in the beginning that he’s not usually ever in the mood for sex but lately he has been. Here’s what’s worrying me.
A couple days ago I found his Twitter and he seemed upset or surprised I did. I found a tweet from a couple days before that he sent to his ex “🥰🥵” responding to a tweet she posted. “I’m gonna look so hot tonight” I did more digging and I now know that they broke up because he cheated on her. But what I didn’t realize at first was he cheated on her with me. And he was the one who initiated the relationship with me. And we’ve been good and he doesn’t know I know any of this. I don’t know what to think. Is he cheating on me too? I don’t have evidence of that. I’m just worried because I know he cheated on his ex.
He deleted that tweet after I confronted him asking him why he sent it and he claimed he hypes up his friends but that doesn’t mean he will date them. Now he’s been texting less and has gotten kind of angry at me. This girl based on her tweets is definitely not getting back with him. But they broke up in June while I was talking to him and we dated in July. I just don’t understand and I’m also trying to figure out how to confront him about this all. I want to know what’s going on.
He tells me he’s not going anywhere and he cares for me.
He seems super sketchy… I’d leave him before he hurts you. If you’re already this confused/doubtful of him and it’s only been a month, it doesn’t look like it’ll get better from here. Save yourself the heartache.
And you know what they say about cheaters… once a cheater always a cheater
Yup
> But what I didn’t realize at first was he cheated on her with me.
If he cheated on her with you, he is going to cheat on you with someone else.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Learned that several times the hard way. Your call, but I’ve heard that song before and it always ends the same way.