Dating : Is my boyfriend who keeps cancelling our dates worth trying?
I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for few months now and we get along great. Everything’s perfect when we are together. The problem is that he cancelled our dates more than 10 times, this time 3 times in a row. Also doesn’t like texting…Is this worth trying? Is he really into me? I think to myself that if he wanted to see me he would have found the time. I really like him, and want a future with him but not sure if we’re on the same page now… I understand that he is busy but so am I and still willing to see him without a question! What do I do?
So my last boyfriend cancelled on me twice and I ended it, for other reasons as well. I can understand someone having actual things going on in life that are worth ditching me for. But more than twice and personlly I am out. I do not have time to be cancelled on, I could spend that time with my friends or family. If he is cancelling on you for « his boys » or a party or something that you could tag along to. You really need to have a conversation with him that you feel like you deerve more of his time and to not be cancelled on. If you talk to him and he continues to do it, wnd it.
Good luck, I hope it works out, but imo when someone has been cancelling on me more than once it’s never a good sign.
I would be straightforward with him. Ask him if he’s serious or not. It may be difficult or awkward but it seems necessary, especially if you want to keep seeing him