Dating : Is she ghosting me?
I (23M) met somebody (23F) on Happn. We met up at a cafe and hung out for about an hour and a half on Saturday. She seemed like a lovely person. We laughed a bit, but I don’t recall much flirting going on, but she may have just been nervous. I messaged her on Facebook on Sunday, thanking her for the date, and asking if she would like to meet up again. It seems that those messages are unread. Today I messaged her on Happn with the same thing, as I was thinking that perhaps she didn’t even see my messages on Facebook, considering she has over 800 friends. I have a feeling she doesn’t see this going anywhere, but is avoiding telling me, or maybe she hasn’t seen my messages because she’s busy. Am I overthinking?
Well from experience either she is to busy to text you back or she isn’t really interested anymore. I think the best thing for you to do now is just leave it alone and wait for her to contact you. I’d say give it at least a week before sending one more message.
No one is “too busy” to send a text man if u think thats a real thing you are lightyears behind and going to get played every time. Imagine being soooo busy you cant send a text that isnt real and i work two jobs….
It’s Monday dude.
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You went out Saturday.
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Relax. Give her some space. Or you WILL scare her away.
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Wait to hear from her.
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Also, in future, don’t « ask » women if they « want » to meet. INVITE them. « Let’s meet next week, when are you free? » not « Would you LIKE to meet? ».
STOP WITH THE DAMN TEXTS AND MESSAGES….
CALL HER!
look at it like this…. how would you want a man to court your mother or mother figure….. with respect and effort……..
Texting a woman don’t mean shit….. get her on the phone and build that vibe… Ask her out when it feels right