Dating : I’ve cut all ties with my SO (20 year old woman) after she breaks up with me but still wanted to have nothing change in our relationship. NSFW
If I were to summarize, the tittle is what I’ve been dealing with these last few days. Myself (22 year old male) and my ex were going through sort of a rough spot. Mainly due to reasons such as me adding someone on Snapchat that my GF didn’t like (it was stupid of me), and me telling her that even while going to church with her, I still was having a hard time trying to associate myself with it. Lastly, she met a male coworker at her new summer job and they apparently hit it off really well, according to her. She would tell me how awesome of a single dad he is (25 year old male), how much they vibe together and how much they take about/what they talk about.
I felt some type of way about it, but time after time she would say it’s an insecurity that I have with myself, that’s making me feel this way. I mean, he would cook for her and she would spend hours at his place…Just them. Maybe with his kid as well.
All of these reasons kinda of led up to us talking about taking a break. She wanted more of a break up type of break, but insisted that nothing were/would change within our relationship. I felt hurt by this, if there are things that we need to work on…Why do we have to break up to do it? She mainly just said that is dating is a “tittle” and it shouldn’t mean much if we were to break up. I can’t explain it, but it’s more than a tittle to me.
A week or so before this happened, she had actually asked me if I would be okay with her having a threesome with her two women friends. Why would someone even ask that in a relationship? We already established that it was just gonna be us.
TL;DR: cut off all contact/relation with GF after she broke up with me but insisted that we should still hangout/talk/and that nothing changes.
Shes fucking him. Delete her # and move on
You’re girlfriend is trash. She’s getting the pipe from that « awesome single dad » and she thinks you’re pathetic otherwise she wouldn’t have done it so brazenly. I would dump her and never speak to her again, and if she reaches out to you the only appropriate response is a series of creative insults.
Edit: it’s hard to pick up being single again just bc we dated for a year and 3 months…But my family/and friends are an amazing support system
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