Dating : Lets help each other ^-^
So not gonna lie fellow redditors know my username entails that I slay all the pus but my dating life is actually hit a bit of a snag I’m a fairly young male older than 18 and I’m apart of the vast majority of guys that don’t get what they’re doing wrong not a troll to look at by any means but I figure I’d like to talk with guys like me older guys who’re married younger guys going through the same thing and a few girls to get a feasible answer an example as to what I’m looking for would be something along the lines of internet dating is relatively fruitless, smile more and make better eye contact, a few dos and donts of conversation etiquette ideas like these save a bit more fleshed out basically good social grace and charisma pointers responders feel free to dm for a more intimate conversation or comment your pointers so other people in a similar situation may see
I find that simple initiative helps. A handsome guy who sits in a corner by himself looking unsociable will not « slay as much pus » as a normal looking guy who puts himself out there and makes the first approach.
I find myself chuckling as i type this, as its extremely hypocritical of me to say this when I am am a textbook example of guy one. No I am not a model status adonis figure, but id consider myself to be mid-upper tier.(im tryna be as objective as possible when i say this, dont roast me too hard please). And I have friends significantly less physically appealing than me, albeit with good social skills, who see more action in one week than I do in a year so theres my self deprecation part to balance things out.
I guess what im saying is that social anxiety and a fear of rejection is a big stumbling block for me, and alot of other guys out there as well.