Dating : Met a nice guy on an app but he died
Not literally. But I met this really sweet guy who is extremely busy with work and projects. He was adamant on going out. We had a lovely date, he was extremely respectful and seemed eager to hang out again. Texted me to make sure I got home safe. The following days after our date he texted once per day and then did not respond.
It’s been about 3 days now, he hasn’t responded to my text. He initiated the conversation so I’m a bit confused.
I know everyone communicates differently and although he wasn’t this bad before I just know this isn’t something I can deal with in the long run.
If he were to reappear, do I cut it off because this is a red flag for me or should I give it another shot? This is assuming that he is still interested.
Not gonna lie, you had me there with that title.
Very possible he pursued another option. No need to write him off completely, but don’t wait around for this one.
Someone who is interested will always make time to respond to you, outside literal life and death circumstances.
Had this happen. He was going through exams and shit so I told him I’d text him after exams and maybe we could go out sometime. Never heard back, was pretty bummed because I was actually into him and that’s rare.
Looked at his bumble profile to see if he had been active since (because I’m a stalker I guess) – wanted to know if he was busy or if I was ghosted – found out from his location that he’s been in a different continent all summer so … you never know with people honestly haha
> Met a nice guy on an app but he died
So you gonna still hang out?
Something similar happened with me. Great guy but bad communicator. At the time I still had Tinder, so when I saw that his location would change, I realized that he was still alive and prob not interested. I agree that you don’t need to completely write him off, but don’t wait around.
I had a situation last summer where i got together with a great gal who turned out to be really into me, but i was already in kinda complicated relationships with 2 other people (and kids involved) and so i just kind of distanced myself becos i didn’t want to a) drag her into my drama at this point in time and b) didn’t want to sit her down over coffee and explain how I’m sooo popular that I’m ghosting her. I am still hoping that the right time will come along when it works for both of us, but right now it ain’t.
He’s busy. After one date, you are not the center of his universe.
What does he do for a living?