Dating : My (27F) former FWB (29M) reached out to me right after his breakup
We used to have nice and sexy nights together 2 years ago but we lived really far from each other so it eventually ended. We really liked spending time together, he told me he liked me several times. We saw each other 1 time per month on average when I was in his city.
After a while, he met a girl in his city and they dated for 2 years. I forgot about him since I had no feelings for him whatsoever.
Since then, I moved to his city and I guess he found out through social media. He contacted me after 2 years, totally out of the blue, last week. I almost forgot about him at this point. He said he would love to see me. He keeps texting me and making plans so we can see each other which is nice.
I am just afraid he picked me to be his rebound. I don’t know what happened with his ex but I have the feeling he’s feeling alone and it was a tough breakup. The thing is he’s a very good looking dude who could get any girl he wants, so why would he contact me after such a long time?
Not sure what he’s after and what I should do.
Of course he is after you for a rebound. You say he was your fwb. This means there’s not supposed to be emotional attachment beyond a friendly one.
>he was your FWB
>I don’t know what is he after
I wonder what is he after, considering he messaged you out of the blue.
Idk, the fact that he says he likes you when you guys were FWB and not is after you. He might just want company and talk about things, obvious he’s gonna ask for sex. I know I would (24M) Just make sure he’s ok before you think you’re a rebond, I know where you’re coming from but just get the facts first
You’re the rebound chick..its obvious..run
He’s probably thinking you’re an easy lay since you’ve been his FWB before?
If you’re horny and need some dick, then go for it but if you’re catching feelings, I’d turn him down
Chances are he doesn’t have unlimited options for chicks to fuck. The thing is when we find somebody attractive, we tend to put their pussy/dick on a pedestal.
So my guess is you guys fooled around before, he’s lonely and probably horny and figures hey i use to fuck this chick before, and I don’t have to put in all the work of getting to that point where she’s dtf.
Voila
> Not sure what he’s after and what I should do.
Former FWB contacts you out of the blue and you arent sure what he wants? He wants sex.
Oh yeah I’m sure this makes you feel very special. You can be his sexual release valve to help him cope with his failed relationship. That’s pretty much the lowest possible position for a woman.
You should get some self-respect and tell him to take a hike.
> Not sure what he’s after
uhhhhhh…….
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