Dating : My crush and I confessed our feelings for each other, but she’s moving away in 2 weeks
Hi Reddit, so my crush and I have gotten really close over the last few months and last night I found out that she got a new job and is moving to a new state in two weeks. We talked for ages and we ended up telling each other that we had feelings for one another. I am honestly so happy for her but at the same time, devastated that someone I had developed strong feelings for was leaving. We’ve kissed before but haven’t had sex (yet?) but she’s also not the type to sleep with someone outside of a relationship. She said she wasn’t keen on doing a LDR. What are our options?
That’s a wrap, my friend. She’ll always have a special place in your heart because of what could’ve been, and it will be a sweet memory with you.
Sorry Johnny but this is where you two go your separate ways. Your paths may cross again, but I wouldn’t take that bet. Tough spot to be in, but you have to go forward and live life.
Better at least hit it before she leaves (if an option)….after that it’s over. Any hope for a LDR is pointless.
I think you can ask her if she minds a long distance relationship. Since the worst outcome is she moves out and you both remain as friends, you might as well ask her now in hope for a better outcome.
Follow YouTube advice on how to break up with someone.
You should try and sleep with her before she goes, might be fun lol
There are no options… You just accept that it doesn’t work most of the time, and move on. This is by far not the only time this is going to happen.