Dating : My crush kissed me
So I have a big crush on this new girl at work. We went to a bar, we danced and we kissed a few times. She has a boyfriend. Today she snapped me a picture of her with her boyfriend saying she is going to a bar with him. Yesterday she let me give her a massage while we were on the bus, I touched her belly and I felt pretty good but I don’t even know if she likes me. What should I do? Should I continue talking to her even tho I know she has a boyfriend? Can this possibly happen? I’m so confused and I can’t stop thinking about her.
Edit: like many of you have said, I will let her go because it’s gonna hurt me if I fall in love with her plus she cheated on her bf so she would do it me and I wouldn’t want that. It’s gonna be hard but I’ll do it.
She likes you, but apparently not enough to be with you, since she is with someone else. Which, if you ask me, is a huge red flag that she behaves with you like this being with someone. But at least you know what you are getting yourself into…
So if you really really want her, go ahead, but you should be aware before hand, that your relationship with her is over without even starting, so I wouldn’t pursue anything serious.
Get over her, if she’s willing to cheat on him with you she’ll cheat on you too, don’t waste you’re time
Fuck that! You deserve someone who doesn’t use you.
This is a disaster.
Take it from me, just let her go. Nothing good is going to come from this in the long term.
I know it’s tough, there was this girl in high school who I was absolutely head-over-heels for, but I had to move on from her. There are over 3.5 BILLION women out there, your bound to meet at LEAST 30 women you would love to be with.
Dude. This girl is a world of hurt waiting to land on your head.
Avoid her. If she breaks up with her current guy give her 6 months before asking her out.
You are a distraction. A fling. A work bf. She is doing this to the guy she is with. She will do the same to you. It ain’t worth it.
sounds like you are thinking with your pp and not with your head
she’s not a good person if she cheats on her boyfriend with you. don’t expect her to treat you any differently if you guys happen to end up together any time soon.
you should seriously look elsewhere though, rather than a taken woman. it’s immoral.
Disaster.
You’re kissing a girl who is in a relationship. You are doing so knowingly. This is not bro code. You need to stop until she breaks up with him. Besides, if you and him are kissing the same lips, you’re indirectly kissing him too.
This sounds like something you really don’t wanna touch. Ask yourself, if you’re witnessing her behave this way, what makes you think it wouldn’t happen to you?
What would you do if you were the boyfriend and she was making moves on another man?
She’s messed up mate. Why are you wasting your time with her?
You deserve better than her.
Get away. This is how people wind up in a podcast about a double murder.
You need to hit that.
You don’t want her. If she’s doing this to her current bf then she’d do it to you.
She already cheated on her boyfriend by kissing you and this is a disaster
A girl from work is cheating on her boyfriend with you? Jesus christ please tell you don’t have a real job.
This has red flags everywhere, get yourself out before the crazy makes a permanent mark.
Fuckin OP is a jodie
It sounds like a red flag cause if she did to him she’d do it to you.
But if you wanna keep pursing then let it roll off your back like water and be careless around her like nothing phases you.
Dude, don’t do this. You’re getting yourself in a swamp of trouble.
She is cheating on her boyfriend with you. We don’t know if her boyfriend knows anything (probably not) and he’s probably going to get really hurt. You’re also not behaving with integrity because you know she has a boyfriend.
Do you really want to be with someone who cheats? The fact that you know all this and still want to keep going is troubling.
Please stop and reconsider everything. Nothing good will find of this, my friend. Everything is aligned for it to go very wrong, in many different ways and for more than one person.
Run dawg