Dating : Never been in a long term relationship at 26. Why??
I am 27 and have been dating for a long time with different girls. I just can’t seem to get into a long term relationship with any girl. I am a soft kind hearted person and i respect every woman. I don’t go around chasing woman I dont sleep around with random girls. I am a very sociable person but i don’t have many friends.
I get along with most girls i date and they seem to like me from the start. Usually i meet girls online and start off talking and i ask her out we go out on dinner or for a coffee. Everything seems ok and most of the time we go out second or a third time too. But after some time the girl tend to ignore me or do not reply to texts or even worse friend zone me.
Recently i have dated a girl for a month. We had such a good connection. We kiss and made out too but we never had sex. I really got attached to her and made me kinda fall for her. I thought she and i were something. Buy then she started opening up about how terrible her break up with her ex was and how those event made her go into depression. Any how she tried to make it work with me because she thought we had a connection too. But then she ended it with me saying she cant be romantically involved with someone because of her depression and she wants to be friends.
This has happened to me before too. Its almost the same story. « I cant be with you because you might get hurt ». » I’m not in a situation to be in a relationship ». » we can be friends and hang out ».
Most girls that I meet either has a problem with a previous relationship or is divorced. I don’t have any problem dating people with issues. It seems all girls have an issue dating or going in a relationship with me because of their issues.
I have waited without dating in the possibility of naturally meeting some one randomly for an year. I have dated girls whome i met online, I have dated girls whom I have been int touch for a long time. Nothing seems to work.
Every girl i meet says the same thing. Im a good guy with a great heart, and some one who respects woman.
Why do they friend zone me or why cant i get into a long term relationship. This is something that has been on my mind for a long time. Any advice would be very helpful on this matter.