Dating : Not sure what’s up here

Dating : Not sure what’s up here

So I (33f) recently got out of a relationship. I had known this guy from a couple times we hung out before with a coworker (38m). He had asked me out nicely over text and I had told him no sorry I’m in a relationship. That relationship ended after 4 years bc of commitment issues/no sex/other things. The night that happened I needed to leave and spent the night with this guy. I feel kinda bad about it about it even though I know I did nothing wrong. We’ve been hanging out since. I was very clear initially that I wasn’t ok with the fwb thing. He had said at the time that he understood that and it was too soon. However, since then we have only hung out once that was not late at night/ us having sex. On that occasion we went kayaking and it was fun and flirty. Every other time has been after 10pm tho and has led to sex (which I am ok with). Every time it has meant spending the night together and talking in the morning.

I’ve enjoyed this time with him but I think I’m catching feelings here. I was pretty honest about it right off the bat that if we were hanging out it means I like u. He said the same. I think what’s getting me rn is that he’s not specifically making time for me. It’s like I’m there just in case he doesn’t have plans. There have been a couple times recently where it was like oh maybe we can hang out after his plans with his friends. I get it that he has his friends and stuff and it’s not like I’m in the right place for a relationship right now.

I’m not sure what to think tho. My girl friends are telling me if he likes me he would make time for me or something. And I feel like since I’ve been more honest that I like him he has been less interested.

Am I just overthinking this?