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Dating : Not sure where i stand with girl I’ve dated a few times

Dating : Not sure where i stand with girl I’ve dated a few times


Hi all,

So basically, I’ve been on two dates with this girl.
She says she’s really into me, we kissed on the first date and made out on the second. Things seem to be going well. But whenever the conversation goes to texting, she will leave me on read and not reply for hours (I’ll add she still has time to post instagram stories though). Its like she’s blowing hot and cold. She’s told me she’s not wanting to waste her time, she likes me, and she talked to me about personal stuff etc. Am I being paranoid or should I be right in thinking she might be playing a mind game with me?

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  1. > Am I being paranoid

    Probably. This almost exact situation has happened to me a lot in online dating. Every piece of evidence suggests she’s super into me, but then I feel like I’m an afterthought when texting.

    This is how I see it for online dating: She may be super into me when we are together, but she is also *constantly* getting new matches. I don’t think you can really expect her full attention while she’s talking to multiple dudes all the time.

    She could also just be a slow texter. I’m guilty of looking at a text and deciding to respond to it later and forgetting until *way* later. I wouldn’t read into that unless she was completely different in the past.

    The only time I’ve accurately gauged that something was up was when a girl completely changed the way she was texting me.

  2. You’re being paranoid. She’s told you all the right things in person. You’re going to fuck it all up if you dwell on this. Save texting for making the next dates and stop overusing it.

  3. She probably doesn’t like texting.
    I’m dating an amazing woman at the moment, can’t wait to meet her tomorrow, yet a part of me dreads when she texts me because I never really know what to say and I’m afraid thats where I might come off as boring or uninteresting.
    I’ll send her a « good morning » text when I wake up and a « how was your day? » in the evening to let her know I’m thinking about her but I generally don’t like texting back and forth, and try to kill those conversations asap.

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