Dating : Older guys?!
Is it unreasonable to want an older guy? I (25f) feel like I have been going after guys that are at least 10-15 years older than me. I feel like they are so much more attractive and they seem to have their lives together more than most. But the problem is, are older guys even in to younger girls? I match with so many of them on dating apps but nothing ever comes of it. Should I stick with guys my age? Thoughts/opinions/experiences please.
Plenty of older guys are into younger women. However, a large portion of the older guys who are into younger women are themselves immature or don’t otherwise have their shit together.
Personally, as a man in my mid-30s, I can’t imagine dating someone a decade younger than me.
For me 34 I think it’s just I don’t pursue younger women (<25) for a relationship because I don’t think they’re in the same stage of life as me.
Yes older guys are into younger girls and yes you should date them and YES YOU SHOULD SPREAD THE WORD SO THAT ALL YOUNG WOMEN KNOW!!!
Older guys are into younger girls I’m pretty sure that’s common knowledge. It’s more of a transactional relationship though he pays the Bill’s and buys you shit you gotta have sex with him when he wants. More power to you wish I didnt have to pay bills.
Yep you’re attracted to what you’re attracted to.
Do what makes you happy and don’t worry what others will think.
your 25 woman, it’s perfectly fine to want older guys if u choose to, because u have life experience. If you were 18 then then tat is another different story.
In general, older guys do prefer younger woman due to maternity and youth.
It’s absolutely fine to want what you want. Some guys will not be interested, but I can guarantee you that there are plenty out there who will be.
I’m 36
I think it’s better to date someone around your own age because you can more easily relate to each other. There are plenty of guys who are your age who are « mature », not sure what exactly you are looking for but they exist.
But I mean if you find someone who is has a large age gap, but doesn’t have obvious red flags like trying to take advantage of your naivety or younger age. Then it should be fine.
“Are you seriously asking if older guys are into young women?!?!?….” Every 35+ female
It completely depends on the individuals. As long as everyone can consent to the relationship, then age doesn’t mean much more than a number. You’ll meet mature and immature people at any age with a wide range of interests, so I would say be open minded! My significant other (m38) and I (f25) have been together a year and have no issues finding things in common or getting along.
People hit different stages of life and different times. I think it’s fair normal for a girl in her mid twenties to date guys in their thirties. I’m 31 and would rather date a girl in her early/mid twenties, because I focussed on my career when I was younger and so have not yet had kids or settled down, so
I’d prefer a girl who is kind of in that phase of her life where she will be looking to do that but not straight away. It all depends on where you are.
The most important thing is, fuck other people’s opinion. You do you.
Yes please. Some of us prefer younger women. You’ll have no problem
Most dating apps prevent me from searching for girls that are much younger than me. I sometimes feel I would prefer a younger girl. In the end your both adults and should not feel guilty about a 20 something dating a 30 something I know relationships that are excellent ending in marriage with that age gap.
Whatever makes you happy. It’s your life, live however you want to live it. Older men are not a monolith, some like younger girls, some don’t. It depends on the individual.