Dating : Online dating rant
I feel like I need to vent my frustrations with online dating. I understand there are probably thousands of posts about this topic but I’m hoping writing this out will help with my frustrations. So I’ve been online dating for years now and don’t get me wrong. It’s landed me some decent relationships in the past, a 1 year, 6 month and 2 year; however, the process of finding someone is so utterly infuriating. It’s becoming a bit unhealthy for me as I’m starting to view most women as completely rude and self centered assholes who have no concept of respect or common decency. 98% of the women I’ve run into in the past few years fall into one of these 4 categories.
1. The girl who matches but won’t speak to me.
2. The girl who matches me and talks to me for all of 5 seconds while putting zero effort into the conversation only to ignore me after 4 exchanged sentences.
3. The girl who agrees to a date only to back out last minute with some garbage excuse or just flat out ghosts. (WHY ARE YOU ON A DATING SITE IF YOU AREN’T GOING TO GO ON DATES?!?)
4. The super rare girl who actually makes it out on a date with me only to ghost me after 1 or 2.
Listen I understand I’m not going to click with everyone and if these girls aren’t feeling me then that’s totally fine. My problem comes when I tell them that it’s ok just to let me know they aren’t interested in anything romantic and tell them I’d like to be friends only for them to leave me on read.
Dating in general is so immensely geared toward women it’s insane but online especially so. The fact that they all walk around completely oblivious to how easy this is for them literally blows my mind. It’s like someone being born with a silver spoon and completely unaware or appreciative of what they have.