Dating : Opinion, is this real good or short term honey moon phase?

Dating : Opinion, is this real good or short term honey moon phase?

2 months ago I joined a pay dating site. It went good, had a lot of good conversations and went on a few dates. I started talking to a women 4 weeks ago and after a week of amazing conversation, we met for a happy hour. 1st date That « date » was perfect, we just talked and talked, 3 hours went by like it was 30 minutes and we both agreed that we needed more time next time.

2nd date was 4 days later, sushi and drinks. This is also my busy time of the year and had a minor rear ending accident that delayed me a couple hours, she still wanted to hang out, date lasted from 9pm to 1:30a, again we both had a great time and just talked and laughed the whole night.

Talked to her the next day, apologized about being late, she said she was a little annoyed but, wanted to hang out.

3rd, dinner and drinks, showed me her place. Another great time.

4th date, drinks at her place and played an awesome board game. Laughed and laughed, another amazing time. We kissed.

Just to point out, we have been talking non stop for 4 weeks, the only time we are not texting or talking on the phone, is between 11:00p and 8:00a. I’m amazed I’m not bored with talking to her, I have a short attention span. And she feels the same.

5th date, Independence Day! This was the one that put things in place. Went on a great hike up a mountain, dinner and drinks, fireworks show at the hot springs.

6th date, she then invited me to a dinner party with 6 of her very close friends. I was extremely nervous but felt good with her. At first she kinda kept her distance from me a little bit. Within 1.5 hours she was affectionate with me in front of her friend, arm around me, hand on my leg, sweet things!

This weekend, we went out of town for the weekend for outdoor adventures and that was also amazing.

Those are the highlights of the last 3 weeks! We seem to have a 2-3 day gap between hanging out, we both like to be alone once in a while.

She has stayed at my place 3 times and she feels at home and it’s really comfortable with her around.

We both have talked about taking it slow, but we are always having an amazing time and doing things as in a serious relationship. We both want to hold off on sex until we are in a relationship. We play around like were in high school lol.

I brought her coffee and a pastry at her work 2 weeks into this. I asked if she wanted anything since I was in her area for work, she said yes!

We are on the same page and have the same values on almost every level. This has been a very easy « relationship » from the start. We stay active, cook, play games, relax and we are both very comfortable around each other and it gets better every day. We are already being playfully competitive and talking a little smack to each other, I love it! And we communicate with ease.
We both agreed to delete our dating profiles 2 weeks into knowing each other.

I did upset her over the weekend because I slept in when we had plans, there was a little crabbyness, but not bad at all, WE TALKED ABOUT IT!! All is good.

We also want to take it slow…. I feel like the only thing that is slow, is the sex. Not a huge deal at this point since other intimate activities are happening.

We talked on the phone tonight and both realized it’s only been 21 days since our first date!
We both want exactly the same things in life, and it’s very specific things.
We have a lot in common and intrested in some of the same things.
But, we are also completely different in a lot of ways, but good things that keep us both learning new things.
We talked about all of this being at 3 weeks and all.
I asked her if she wanted to slow down at all, and she said no in a way like I was crazy for asking lol.

Everything has been happening naturally with nothing forced at all. We are both learning about each other a lot and also feel like we’ve know each other a long time. We both agree that this has all been good and want a serious relationship. We are a very good match.

We are getting attached on a emotional level. We both have our lives in a good spot, never been married, no kids, learned from similar past relationships.

This has been the relationship I have always dreamt of. She is perfect for me.
I need any advice I can get, I want this to work.

With all of that being said, what advice would you give to keep the momentum in this.

Are we just getting old (35 and 36) and are more chill?

Would you slow it down without talking to her about it?

Is this all to fast?

I’m looking for opinions and advice on this all.

Thanks!