Dating : She disappeared after acting very interested (reposting here)
I met this girl on tinder and at first our conversation was really brief and she ghosted me the day after. I really didn’t care much at this point because I wasn’t really that attached to her.
Fast forward 3 months and at this point I have almost completely forgotten about this girl. One Tuesday, she messaged me out of nowhere and I replied to her just for the sake of being friendly. A few hours later and we were really hitting it off then the next day she messaged me good morning. This continued on for 3 more days. Basically, things were going well cuz we were sweet with each other and she seemed to really like me romantically. She said she was having butterflies in her stomach and all. She said she really liked how sweet I was. On Sunday morning, I said good morning first and she replied with a good morning like usual. I then asked if she slept well and basically asked how she was like I always do. Then she never replied until now. I sent a few messages asking whats up and finally a message saying if there was something wrong because it’s unusual for her not to message me for more than a day when I would always see her online on Instagram DMs although she never posts on her story. She also hasn’t opened any of my messages. It’s almost been 3 days since her last message. We were supposed to meet on Monday but she never talked to me again the day before Monday. I’m really just confused and annoyed because I was starting to get attached already. 🙁
Basically, she put in a lot of effort chatting me first and being sweet and caring and she just suddenly disappeared one day without any explanation or any clue why she just suddenly ghosted me.
Am I overreacting and is it still too early to say I’ve been ghosted?
This what’s a lot of girls do today unfortunately. The whole “hot and cold” thing is jarring and you don’t want min off that, trust me. Just got to take it on the chin and say “it is what it is” And move on. Eventually sweet girl will come along and you won’t have worry about oversharing and feeling stupid. You dodge a bullet there.
Keep in mind girls on tinder get 100 of messages a day so you must have stood out so don’t sell your self short. At the same time I know it’s tinder but just cause she’s a girl don’t be putting her on the pedestal. If she pops up again either do the same to her or be very blunt. She should crave your attention just as much
You have to get to the point and ask her for a date bro. See when she’s free and make something happen. This time don’t send anything, wait until she replies even if it takes a year. When she does, get to the fucking point!