Dating : Should dating and/or relationships be hard or easy?
I have heard that real love is hard work and no matter the struggles, real love beats it all.
However, I have also heard that real love shouldn’t be hard in the first place.
So… which is it??
It takes effort but it shouldn’t be hard work.
What is meant for you should flow and feel right.
If it doesn’t, chances are it’s not.
introduction phase – easy and carefree
middle phase – putting in work, learning one another. doing things and making sacrifices to earn and keep their love
long game phase – you’d rather be with them than anyone else, yall put too much work. This is where old couples who don’t touch other lol but they love each other no questions asked. and they’ll no question sacrifice anything possible to keep them around.
Love is an emotion. A romantic relationship, on the other hand, is just like any other relationship. You have to put in the time and the effort. These tend to be harder because there’s more at stake, and the needs of the relationship can become much more involved and much more complicated, but recognizing that you will have to work for all of your meaningful relationships will help you in all of your relationships.
I’ve heard fast food causes heart disease, but how can it be bad for my heart if I’m in love with it?
I constantly have this question myself
I’d say it’s easy about 80% of the time, but that other 20% can get pretty fucking brutal.
Easy more or less. If dating someone is hard them one or both of you are doing some think wrong.
It’s hard when you’re expecting needs from the other person. It’s easy when you fill your own needs and are with that person. You can then start to fill in the spots that make you more compatible. If both of you are full then you look at the other ones needs instead of your own.
A bit of both.
It shouldn’t be too hard, it usually means something is not working but it’s being forced to work. Those kinds of relationships are the worst.
It takes energy, but should be easy. It’s like having a favorite video game series or something. It’s rewarding and doesn’t feel like work, but it takes effort to actually play the games and get through the series.
It’s seems easy when you’re putting in effort but it’s hard getting someone to vibe with you and searching for the right person.
easy, nothing should ever be hard