Dating : Should I add on IG a guy that I danced with at a festival? Would I look like a creep?
2 days ago I went to a small music festival with my friends. When we went to get water, I saw a guy that caught my attention looking towards us, I made eye contact with him. After we got the water we went to dance, and after about one hour of dancing we went outside. When we were outside, I saw the same guy walking towards us with his friends, I let him pass us, and then I turned my head to look at him. He was walking towards the opposite direction and at the same time that i turned my head to see him, he turned his, and we made eye contact again.
I told my friends what had happened, and I told them that I thought he was cute. They told me that we could get closer to him so that I could maybe approach to him, but I told them that I was too shy to do that.
After some time had passed, he walked towards us again, I was facing the opposite side so my friends told me that he was gonna pass next to me again. When he walked next to me we ended up making eye contact again, but this time he approached to me and asked “why are you starring at me” I said that i wasn’t (even though it was obvious that both of us were looking at each other).
Right after this happened he grabbed my hand and told me “let’s go dance” then he told my friends that he was gonna bring me back soon. He asked for my name and where I was from when we were dancing. He also asked if I was gonna go to the event happening the next day to which I said no.
When the song ended he said that he had to go to the restroom and I started dancing with my friends again. Then, I told them what he had said and they said that he sounded full of himself because he said that I was the one starring at him. I told them that we could leave (because we were about to leave before he asked me to dance) and we left. When we were leaving I saw him walking from the restroom to the spot we were dancing.
When I got home I realized that I used to have that guy on an old IG account that I used to have. I searched him, and yeah it was him. Now idk if I should follow him. He really caught my eye, and I’d like to get to know him, but I don’t want to look like a creep. What should I do? We have some friends in common, and I found out that he’s one of my friend’s cousins
Pss: sry for the long post and thanks 🙂
I wouldn’t worry about coming off as a creep. I don’t think you would. But what you did come across as is definitely confusing and probably rude. Hopefully you will be more upfront and forthcoming with your thoughts and feelings and you’ll clarify to this guy (if you do contact him) about the events that night so you’re not a picture perfect example of someone who gives missed signals.
I am a guy.
Guy adding woman is almost always creepy.
Woman adding guy is almost never creepy.
It’s just social media, not your wedding. Stop being silly.
Yes you should, no you would not.
If he like you then no. If he does not like you then it does not matter. There an upside to adding him.
What do you have to loose?
That’s normal , people add each other on social media meeting at concerts and festivals all the time.