Dating : Should I get her Flowers today? Need to know by 4:30 pm
A girl Who when we first hung out said she just wants to be friends and doesn’t want a relationship. I respect her wishes but over the two weeks we have gotten closer, flirting is official, and Monday after dinner she said she likes me and would date me, but right now she needs to focus on herself. I myself am trying to diet, move to a new apartment, and after that look for a new job. Her reason for not to be in a relationship is she was a heavy drinker and depressed and the groups are tell her to not get into a relationship. she made it clear that she is interested in me, so I respect her, and I don’t want to cross lines, but I am a giver.
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She Finished Training today for her new job she just got, she is tired, and I want to buy her flowers and leave them at her door as a Surprise.
What is your Opinion on this? Would it be to much? or just a sweet gesture? I don’t look for anything in return besides her being Happy to get Flowers?
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Ladies? gentlemen?
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Should I??
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Update: I got her the flowers and two sparkling waters she told me last night she likes (she didn’t have anything to drink) This girl has no money at the moment is deserves what I did. She pulled up right when I was walking to drop it off so i was caught, but she was confused asking why. I told her she deserves flowers. She said You know we are not dating right? i replied yes and I am a man who gives girls flowers. I just want you to be happy.
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She isn’t coming over, she is gonna relax watch tv and enjoy her flowers. Which she said she might take them to her mothers grave, which I am Honored if she did.
I like this girl, and what i did today I hope makes her realize she is amazing.
I think it’s a sweet idea! you’re not asking for anything else, so I think you should go for it 🙂
Although it’s a really nice gesture, I wouldn’t. Especially if she’s going through recovery, itl just put too many emotions on her and prevent her from focusing on herself. Especially if they’re left on her door step. Not saying don’t buy her flowers at some point , but let her take care of herself first. Show you care about her in simpler ways that are less stressful on her focus atm
That move will get you a hug, and superglue that pussy shut.
It’s been 2 weeks? No. Don’t show up to her house leaving shit. You’re being thirsty and trying to woo someone who says they don’t want to date you and I guarantee it will be a turn off.
If she’s an alcoholic and depressed but trying to recover, let her do that. Get some self respect and move on for now.