Dating : Should I give Tinder Guy a Chance?
Hi! So I am a 21 year old female college student. At one point when I was actively looking for a relationship I downloaded Tinder (I’m a grandma with apps and social media and didn’t realize Tinder was designed predominately for hookups. Opps lol). When I downloaded it I noticed there was a guy basically saying « Hey beautiful, I’d love to take you out » in late December. He messaged me again mid January, and just when I thought he gave up, he messaged me again late MAY! LOL. I never responded to any of his messages. Mostly because by the time he’d message me I was either dating someone else (I just can’t date multiple people. I feel so guilty even if we aren’t official) or I was busy with school and didn’t have the app downloaded anymore. I almost find him endearing however, he doesn’t even know my personality so idk if his persistence should be considered a red flag or not. Any thoughts? Should I give him a chance? I really need a nice guy in my life but not someone who doesn’t respect themselves.