Dating : Should I message him to hang out?
I went on a causal few dates with a guy I met off bumble about 2 months ago and started to like him a bit and wanted to hang out more frequently to get to know him more.
He said he wasn’t ready or at the point to begin a relationship and commit at the moment so I decided to end things there however he wanted to remain friends.
Initially I was a bit upset about the outcome, however I’ve been busy and got over it and also not really in the position to start anything serious at the moment either. I also wouldn’t want to be with him now as I was put off instantly that he only saw me as an option.
Now though I am sort of keen for a causal thing with him 2 months later. Is this a mistake? Do you think if I sent a causal message asking him to hang out and explaining a bit about how I’m not really wanting anything serious at the moment he would go for it? He is still active on bumble and I know he is still just casually seeing people.
Thanks for advice in advance.